Power of Change

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The Power To Change Your Life Lies In You

Have you ever felt stuck in a situation you dislike? Ever looked at your life and felt that things were not going according to the grand plan? We have many expectations of ourselves in terms of where we should go, and when we are nowhere near that destination, it can be frustrating. Everybody desires progress, and when we cannot see it happening in our lives, we become discouraged.

Instead of wallowing in misery and self-pity, we can do better for ourselves by realizing that we have the power to change what we dislike. Few people know they can take control of their life. We are not passengers in our own lives, although many of us take a back seat about our passions and our careers. We are pilots and we determine the destination. If you feel dissatisfied with your circumstances, then maybe it is time to take control of the driver’s seat and change your life.

The start button for real and lasting change is a burning desire for the better. Desiring change is a good thing because nothing ever stays the same. Stagnancy is boring. After a while, our nature, which is wired for growth and evolution, ceases to be satisfied by routine existence. We should constantly seek to improve our lives and make moves that will propel us forward into our destiny. 

Change is inevitable. We see it in the natural process of growth. The things we put value to ten years ago are not the things we value today. People change. Circumstances change. If change will happen anyway, we might as well control the narrative of the changes by choosing to transform our lives for the better.

Why people resist changing their circumstances.

At any point, we face decisions that involve change. Life offers us the opportunity to change in our relationships and our careers. There are decisions to be made about changing our lifestyle. If changes govern the decisions we make, why do many people shun them? Why do people find themselves stuck in a rut? Why do we go to the job we hate or stay in abusive relationships?

The answer lies in our fear of change. We know we have the power to transform our lives, but we are afraid to step out of our comfort zone. The thought of any change to the rhythm of our existence fills us with uncertainty. We doubt our own choices and believe that any change we bring might have negative consequences. 

We do not want to quit our stressful jobs to pursue our passion because we fear the loss of security. The same applies to leaving toxic associations with romantic partners, friends, and family. We fear being alone for the rest of our lives, so we let people take advantage of us. We resist the nudge to switch careers because we are comfortable with not being challenged and stretched by the demands of the more taxing job or starting a new business.

If we could only realize that we can change our lives, we would embrace the power we have to choose better for ourselves. The very changes we fear may be the keys we need to unlock our destiny. The steps we dread making could be the ones that lead us to our greatest achievements. If you want to live a happier and more fulfilling life, be open to making changes. 

How to make changes that improve your life.

When we speak about changing your life, many people rush head-first into radical changes like quitting their job or moving to another state. Sometimes, it is not about starting with big and bold changes. You can pace yourself by changing your routine or your diet or exercise regimen. 

Changes you can make to your life include:

Changing your mindset.

The change one can start with is that of their mindset. Winning begins in the mind. When the mind is defeated, failure is imminent. The moment you transform your thoughts from defeat and negativity is the moment you get a fighting chance to change your circumstances. Change your negative perception for positivity. Believe in the possibilities that come with change. 

Rediscovering your purpose.

Sometimes, the frustrations we experience result from us straying from our purpose. Rediscovering your purpose or your vision will help you know the adjustments you need to make to get back on track. It will add meaning to your life and bring you fulfillment. What changes can you make to ensure that you realize your dream? 

Distancing yourself from negativity.

Other than the voices in your head, negativity can come from people around you. If you are to make progress, negativity should have no place in your life. A positive change to make to your life is to be more intentional about positivity. Tuning out negativity is difficult, but it is not impossible. Start by affirming yourself. It encourages you and boosts your faith in yourself. Tell yourself that you have the power to make positive and impactful changes that improve your life. Another way to remain positive is to remove negative people from your circle. Changes include distancing yourself from people who do not support you or believe in your dream. 

Adjust your routine.

Some changes you need to make may seem insignificant at the moment, but they may have the greatest impact. Other people saw changes come in through waking up earlier, meditating at the start of the day, or taking morning walks to help them focus. Such adjustments to your routine can be the move that changes your life.

If there is anyone who has the power to transform your life, it is you. You have ultimate control to determine what your future will be. You have the power to reinvent yourself and change, as long as this change is coming from within.